You're amazing on your own. Isn't it time your relationships felt amazing too?

You're amazing on your own. Isn't it time your relationships
felt amazing too?

Brain-based, results-driven coaching and healing for
powerful women who are ready to make powerful change.

Attract and keep the men you (really) want
Access your feminine powers
Eliminate unhealthy patterns
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You’re a successful,
high-achieving woman.

So why does your personal life feel like a (hot) mess?
By any objective standards, you’ve racked up seriously impressive accomplishments:
  • You run a thriving business...or maintain a high-powered career
  • You command the respect of your colleagues & team members
  • You enjoy money, power, and looks — PICTURE-PERFECT.
Do any of these sound like you? →

“My dates go nowhere. What am I doing wrong?”

  • “I have no problem getting first dates— but no one sticks around”
  • “If so many guys call me, why do I still feel so alone?”
  • “I seem to be a magnet for duds”

“I know I shouldn’t be doing this, but I can’t help myself

  • “My boyfriend doesn’t respect me, so why do I stay with him?”
  • “I stay up late, eat and drink too much — I hate myself for it”
  • “I was sure I’d be a loving mother, so why am I always pissed off at my kids?”

“I know I shouldn’t be doing this, but I can’t help myself

  • “My boyfriend doesn’t respect me, so why do I stay with him?”
  • “I stay up late, eat and drink too much — I hate myself for it”
  • “I was sure I’d be a loving mother, so why am I always pissed off at my kids?”

“I try so hard, but I can’t get a single date

  • “At work, I’m a rockstar. In my personal life, I lose all self-confidence”
  • “I’m jealous of women in relationships with men I don't even want to be with!”
  • “I don’t feel good in my body; I’m ashamed of how I look”

Everything you touch turns to gold…except your relationships.

  • You watch your friends find their soulmates...and wonder if it will ever happen for you.
  • You’re seeing multiple people...but have no real direction or commitment.
  • You’re married to a good man...but the loneliness is so acute, it keeps you up at night.
  • You thought meeting up with anyone you swiped right on would be fun...but it’s making you feel depressed.

You’re a successful,
high-achieving woman.

So why does your personal life feel like a (hot) mess?
By any objective standards, you’ve racked up seriously impressive accomplishments:
  • You run a thriving business...or maintain a high-powered career
  • You command the respect of your colleagues & team members
  • You enjoy money, power, and looks — PICTURE-PERFECT.
Does any of these sound like you?

“My dates go nowhere.
What am I doing wrong?”

“My life is Instagram-worthy.
So why do I feel so lonely?”

“I know I shouldn’t be doing this,
but I can’t help myself

“I try so hard, but I can’t get
a single date

Everything you touch turns to gold…except your relationships.

  • You watch your friends find their soulmates...and wonder if it will ever happen for you.
  • You’re seeing multiple people...but have no real direction or commitment.
  • You’re married to a good man...but the loneliness is so acute, it keeps you up at night.
  • You thought meeting up with anyone you swiped right on would be fun...but it’s making you feel depressed.

HERE THE THING:

IT'S NOT
YOUR FAULT.

You’re a modern woman, like me. We — the women of the 21st century — were never taught what feminine energy really is...and how to use it. Born into modern “feminism”, we’re thrown onto one of two not-very-desirable paths:

THE FREE-SPIRITED
ADVENTURER

The spunky woman who gets around but misses the comforting person they can call home.

THE HIGH-POWERED
CAREER WOMAN

The formidable, deeply independent woman who’s manlier than the greatest man.

And what keeps us on these paths, are stubborn limiting beliefs.

These beliefs are buried in our psyches — entrenched so deep we don’t even know they’re there.

BELIEFS LIKE...

“I'm not good enough”

So I’ll work even harder to look thinner, smarter, prettier, and younger.

“Love is painful”

So I need to self-sabotage any promising relationship that feels like it’s getting serious.

“Men cannot be trusted”

So I only see the bottom-of-the-barrel men who truly cannot be trusted

“Feminine energy is weak or superficial”

So I need to be a man. That’s the only way I can be valued.

“I'm not good enough”

So I’ll work even harder to look thinner, smarter, prettier, and younger.

“Love is painful”

So I need to
self-sabotage any promising relationship
that feels like
it’s getting serious

“Men cannot be trusted”

So I only see the
bottom-of-the-barrel
men who truly cannot
be trusted

“Feminine energy is weak or superficial”

So I need to be a man. That’s the only way I can be valued.

These limiting beliefs may stem from:

DNA (from epigenetic trauma)
Childhood
patterns
Cultural
dynamics
Whatever the source — these beliefs are a problem.

Because your subconscious is running the show.

Because your subconscious is running the show.

Because your subconscious is running the show.

90% of who we are and how we react comes from our subconscious.

And most of us have no clue what’s even there. All too often, behind that confident woman running a kickass business is a love-starved littlegirl crying “See, Daddy? I’m worthy of your love!”

Until we acknowledge and release these limiting core beliefs, we’ll never be able to access the joy of real relationship — or live the life of our dreams.

(No matter how smart or self-aware we are)

Instead, we’ll continue to repel the men we really deserve — the ones who are smart, kind, and handsome.

You already know the truth.
You’ve learned it the hard way
.

  • Tinder is not a relationship.
  • Sexual availability doesn’t translate into commitment
  • The (good) men stay away not because you’re too scary or too smart — but because you project, loud and clear: “I DON’T NEED YOU”

Yes, men may come for sex — but they stay for character traits they love. And if a man feels useless, he’ll find a different woman who makes him feel needed.

Here’s the truth that’s not as well known:

Your femininity is sacred and powerful...

when you harness it right.

And I can teach you how.

Rewire your beliefs, and start living the life you really want.

WHO AM I?

I am a certified coach, healer, and spiritual teacher who’s helped hundreds of women take their relationships from “deeply painful” to “deeply satisfying.”

Working together, we:

Step 1

Bring your subconscious beliefs to the surface —so you start making conscious choices

No more reptilian brain running your life!

Step 2

Reprogram your subconscious with powerful beliefs that harness your feminine energy

Using tools that span neuroscientific, kinesthetic, and spiritual approaches.

Step 3

Give you back your power — so your actions take you down the path you really want

A path to meaningful, lasting relationships — romantically and in every area of your life
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Working together, we:

Step 1

Step 2

Step 3

Bring your subconscious beliefs to the surface — so you start making conscious choices

Reprogram your subconscious with powerful beliefs that harness your feminine energy

Give you back your power — so your actions take you down the path you really want

No more reptilian brain running your life!
Using tools that span neuroscientific, kinesthetic, and spiritual approaches.
A path to meaningful, lasting relationships — romantically and in every area of your life
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Lana, Johannesburg

“I understand myself better and make better decisions”

Chaïma’s mentorship has significantly contributed to my increasing self-acceptance, self-confidence, and self-love. Now, I understand myself better, listen more to my intuition, and make decisions that are aligned with my purpose. More than ever before, I’m able to find my own inner peace. It’s been a beautiful journey.

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GOZI, London

“I feel empowered to make choices that take me in the right direction”

Chaïma didn’t just see me, she saw my very essence — and that’s what she brought out for me, from my subconscious. With this new understanding, I felt empowered to take actions that are actually aligned with that essence, as opposed to the ones that were taking me in the wrong direction. And even if those actions don’t give me the results I desire, I have full confidence in Chaïma and her analytical mind and strategies, to help me realize a different action that could achieve the results I really want.

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Sally, dubai

“I’m at peace with my femininity”

Before working with Chaïma, I was blocking my own femininity, preferring to show my masculine side in an unbalanced way. Thinking and acting this way created guilt and shame; when dealing with men, I felt disempowered and confused. Chaïma helped me work to disconnect from collective consciousness — and redefine myself. Today, I treat my body as a sacred gift; I feel empowered and at peace with my femininity, which directly impacts my self-worth and self-love.

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Lana, Johannesburg

“I understand myself better and make better decisions”

Chaïma’s mentorship has significantly contributed to my increasing self-acceptance, self-confidence, and self-love. Now, I understand myself better, listen more to my intuition, and make decisions that are aligned with my purpose. More than ever before, I’m able to find my own inner peace. It’s been a beautiful journey.

GOZI, London

“I feel empowered to make choices that take me in the right direction”

Chaïma didn’t just see me, she saw my very essence — and that’s what she brought out forme, from my subconscious. With this new understanding, I felt empowered to take actions that are actually aligned with that essence, as opposed to the ones that were taking me in the wrong direction.And even if those actions don’t give me the results I desire, I have full confidence in Chaïma and her analytical mind and strategies, to help me realize a different action that could achieve the results I really want.

Sally, dubai

“I’m at peace with my femininity”

Before working with Chaïma, I was blocking my own femininity, preferring to show my masculine side in an unbalanced way. Thinking and acting this way created guilt and shame; when dealing with men, I felt disempowered and confused. Chaïma helped me work to disconnect from collective consciousness — and redefine myself. Today, I treat my body as a sacred gift; I feel empowered and at peace with my femininity, which directly impacts my self-worth and self-love.

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I know the road you’re on, because I’ve travelled it. And I also know how to change course.

As a young woman who struggled with relationships, I needed to know: why do so many beautiful, intelligent women seem to SUCK at relationships? So I embarked upon a relentless, decade-long quest. Three Master’s degrees and 10 intensive years of research & study later (at Oxford University and HEC Paris), I finally felt satisfied.

I’d learned how to translate proven neuroscientific principles into coaching techniques that create change.

My approach blends ancient wisdom with contemporary science to accomplish practical results like:

MEANINGFUL
DATES
long-lasting
relationships
Men who cherish
and honor us

My approach blends ancient wisdom with contemporary science to accomplish practical results like:

MEANINGFUL
DATES
long-lasting
relationships
Men who cherish
and honor us

Who I serve

I work with...

  • successful single women who struggle in their relationships
  • couples who find themselves in crisis

Based in Paris, I serve clients from across the world. I am fluent in French, English, and Arabic.

And because I grew up in a traditional, patriarchal society, I understand the deep cultural dynamics women often need to overcome before they can unleash their light onto the world.

How I work with clients

How I work with clients

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1:1

Coaching
Sessions

Via private and convenient teleconference sessions, we’ll bring out your best energy, with no longterm commitment

£ 800

3

month
Program

Achieve lasting change with regular sessions that build on each other

£ 7800

1-2

DAY Private Intensive
for coupleS

We can meet in Paris, south of France, London, Los Angeles, or anywhere.

Release your (faulty) beliefs…and transform your life.

The results you can expect when we work together →

Self-love

I am beautiful and lovable. I am worthy of being cherished.

Self-worth

I am valuable, just as I am. My value is not tied to anything I do or say.

Clarity

I know what I want, and I know what I need to do to get it. I feel empowered to find the soulmate I really want and need.

Fulfilling relationships

My relationships make me feel warm and full.

Newfound sense of purpose

I do things because I want to, not because I need to prove anything to anyone. At work, at home...in every area of my life.

Release your (faulty) beliefs…and transform your life.

The results you can expect when we work together

Self-love

I am beautiful and lovable. I am worthy of being cherished.

Self-worth

I am valuable, just as I am. My value is not tied to anything I do or say.

Clarity

I know what I want, and I know what I need to do to get it. I feel empowered to find the soulmate I really want and need.

Fulfilling relationships

My relationships make me feel warm and full.

Newfound sense of purpose

I do things because I want to, not because I need to prove anything to anyone. At work, at home...in every area of my life.

My clients
say it best

Real quotes from clients

“I’ve dated for decades, but last night was my first real date. Because now I know what it means to date. He was respectful, he honored my boundaries!”

“I’m an internationally-acclaimed surgeon — but I suffered from chronic anxiety, and would regularly have panic attacks between surgeries. In one session, Chaïma gave me more insight than ten years of therapy.”

“Since working with Chaïma, my life has changed: I feel a deep serenity; I feel free from all judgment. I feel positive and optimistic. I no longer endure my life — I have become its master. It feels like I’ve been reborn at age 65!”

My clients
say it best

Real quotes from clients

“I’ve dated for decades, but last night was my first real date. Because now I know what it means to date. He was respectful, he honored my boundaries!”

“I’m an internationally-acclaimed surgeon — but I suffered from chronic anxiety, and would regularly have panic attacks between surgeries. In one session, Chaïma gave me more insight than ten years of therapy.”

“Since working with Chaïma, my life has changed: I feel a deep serenity; I feel free from all judgment. I feel positive and optimistic. I no longer endure my life — I have become its master. It feels like I’ve been reborn at age 65!”

There’s no shortage of “life coaches” or “healers”

Why work with me?
Because you get→

A strong healing samourai

My approach is bold and direct — which my clients find comforting. I care too much about your wellbeing to let you waste time and energy. I’m here to serve you, not to please you. So there’s no beating around the bush; just radical honesty that helps you locate the problem, then RAZE it out of your life.

Exclusive, VIP attention

When it comes to my clients, I am highly selective; I will only work with you if we’re a good fit. And if you’re truly ready to change, I will never give up on you. I will give everything in my power to help you reach your goals.

Concrete solutions + Measurable results

I believe: If you cannot create actual change, you cannot call yourself a healer. I don’t just uncover the root of your problem and leave you on your own to deal with the fallout. (“Now I know why my life is @!#@. But it’s still @!#@!”) We work together to figure out how to fix it.

A tailored, multi-pronged program customized to you

One-size-fits-all doesn’t work in real life. I’m trained in multiple approaches and modalities — spiritual, thetahealing, neuroscience — and I’ll use the one that works best for your personality and temperament. The results are the same — but the approach is adapted to your needs.

Certified Theta Healing® instructor

This official training from Think Institute is currently the fastest-growing self-development modality on the planet. It’s a meditation technique that helps you access your subconscious mind quickly and efficiently to release limiting beliefs.

There’s no shortage of “life coaches” or “healers”

Why work with me? Because you get...

A strong healing samourai

My approach is bold and direct — which my clients find comforting. I care too much about your wellbeing to let you waste time and energy. I’m here to serve you, not top lease you. So there’s no beating around the bush; just radical honesty that helps you locate the problem, then RAZE it out of your life.

Exclusive, VIP attention

When it comes to my clients, I am highly selective; I will only work with you if we’re a good fit. And if you’re truly ready to change, I will never give up on you. I will give everything in my power to help you reach your goals.

Concrete solutions
+ Measurable results

I believe: If you cannot create actual change, you cannot call yourself a healer. I don’t just uncover the root of your problem and leave you on your own to deal with the fallout. (“Now I know why my life is @!#@. But it’s still @!#@!”) We work together to figure out how to fix it.

A tailored, multi-pronged program customized to you

One-size-fits-all doesn’t work in real life. I’m trained in multiple approaches and modalities — spiritual, thetahealing, neuroscience — and I’ll use the one that works best for your personality and temperament. The results are the same — but the approach is adapted to your needs.

Certified Theta Healing® instructor

This official training from Think Institute is currently the fastest-growing self-development modality on the planet. It’s a meditation technique that helps you access your subconscious mind quickly and efficiently to release limiting beliefs.

HANNAH, BERLIN

“I felt safe and cared for”

I feel extremely lucky to have experienced ThetaHealing with Chaïma Essayed. She is one of the most gifted practitioners I have ever had the chance to work with: beautiful and kind and smart, with impressive clairvoyance, humour, and — most importantly — the ability to communicate and navigate the most delicate topics with love, compassion, and clarity. She helped me gain awareness of extremely sneaky structures of my subconscious in a way that made me feel absolutely safe and cared for. Chaïma will go the extra mile for her clients, is extremely aware of her responsibility, and cares deeply for her work. I recommend her with all my heart!

Are we a good fit?

If you’re an ambitious, decision-making, results-focused 30+ year old woman who is ready to…

  • take concrete action and move forward
  • let go of victim narratives
  • dig deep to examine core driving beliefs
  • change your approach to relationships

...Let's talk.

Because you are worth it.

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Not sure if I am right for you?

Do not hesitate to send me an email at hello@chaima.co.uk. I'll be delighted to answer your questions.

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